Buying a new home is about more than square footage and finishes, it’s about planting roots in a place where you feel welcomed, connected, and truly at home. As you tour neighborhoods during the Fall Parade of Homes, you might be imagining morning walks on the trails, stopping by the coffee shop downtown, or that first invite to a backyard bonfire. But how do you actually make that vision come to life once you’ve moved in? Whether you’re new to the Midwest or simply relocating across town, feeling at home in your community takes intention. But the good news? You don’t have to wait years to feel connected. Here are some smart, simple ways to get to know your new neighborhood.
We get it: the garage door lifestyle is real. It’s easy to pull in, close up, and move on with your day. But taking just a few minutes to introduce yourself to nearby neighbors makes a big difference — especially in a brand-new development where everyone’s settling in at the same time. If you’re touring during the Parade of Homes and you notice people out walking or chatting on driveways, that’s a great sign that a neighborhood is already beginning to build connections. Once you move in, a simple wave or quick introduction can open the door to future conversations and friendships.
Many new neighborhoods host casual get-togethers for residents, think: ice cream socials, outdoor movie nights, or community cleanup days. These small events are an easy, low-pressure way to meet your neighbors and learn what people care about in your area. If your development doesn’t have something planned yet, consider starting small. A fire pit night or hot cider gathering in the driveway is all it takes. Chances are, your neighbors are just as eager to connect but waiting for someone to take the first step.
Every community has its secret treasures: a favorite coffee shop with the friendliest baristas, a scenic walking path just off the main road, or a locally owned business that hosts live music on weekends. When you take the time to explore beyond your immediate block, you’ll discover the places that help you feel like a local. (And good news—our Hidden Gems section in this guidebook is a great place to start your treasure hunt. We’ve rounded up some of the must-visit parks, shops, workout studios, and eateries to help you get a taste of what makes each area of the metro special.)
Digital tools can be surprisingly helpful when you’re new to the neighborhood. Look for local groups on Facebook, WhatsApp, or Next door to stay in the loop about events, recommendations, and community news. Just remember to keep things positive and neighborly, these tools work best when they help build trust and shared support.
Maybe a no-brainer, but going for a walk in your own neighborhood is one of the easiest ways to meet people and feel more at home. Get your steps in, wave at neighbors you pass, and notice the little details: who's planting a fall garden, which homes have festive front porches, and where the kids like to gather for bike rides or chalk art. Over time, these regular strolls help you feel more rooted in your community.
Moving into a new home is exciting, but the feeling of belonging doesn’t happen overnight. The best neighborhoods are created by the people who live in them. So, as you explore new neighborhoods on the Parade of Homes, look beyond the front doors. Ask yourself what it might be like to live there, because when you find a community that feels like home, everything else falls into place.
